Yesterday
 I was writing specifically about my sponsored children through Plan, 
and my regrets about not writing more. I know that donating the money 
has value, but I believe there is an added value in making it personal.
It’s
 something that I think about at times, like when I am at the store and 
asked to round up my change for some cause, or to give a dollar and buy a
 shamrock. It’s something quick and cheap, and it does matter to 
someone, so it isn’t meaningless. At the same time, it isn’t always 
exactly meaningful, or perhaps not in the best way.
Often
 the emotions it triggers are guilt, and fatigue. It does add up, and 
constantly being asked, and feeling like only a bad person would say 
“no”, can eventually build up the kind of resentment that comes from 
well-meaning “awareness” posts that 99% of people won’t care about, but 
are you one of those good people who will repost? 
There
 are a few possible issues there. One of the first that I have read was 
actually about those pages where you would click and advertisers would 
give a small donation, though it brought in the rounding up change part 
also. People feel like they are making a contribution, without actually 
doing anything.
I
 get that concern, and it is the least important one to me. If you can 
get people to do good in a pain-free manner, then by all means go for 
it. The amount of good that they are doing is probably small, but still,
 it could be helping someone, and if someone feels more self-satisfied 
than they deserve, it happens for worse reasons all the time. I can’t 
get excited over that.
There
 are other things that concern me more. One is reading that people 
contribute about the same amount to charity regardless of the context. I
 believe the figure was about 2%. If people give more in response to an 
appeal in one place, they will give less somewhere else, and it seems to
 be self-correcting. This is a concern, because it seems possible that 
if one cause is better situated than another, it could take away from 
other charities with less advantages, and all based on marketing rather 
than on the merits of the charity. 
Okay,
 obviously this is going to happen all the time anyway, but my point is 
that it can be even more insidious than we realize. It’s more insidious 
because there is less thinking. I can’t even remember who got the extra 
change. Were the sneakers for Muscular Dystrophy or March of Dimes? I 
don’t know. I do have limited resources; I should be a little more 
careful with them.
A
 greater level of involvement does make a difference. I remember clearly
 that every read-a-thon that I did in grade school was for multiple 
sclerosis, working in the fireworks booth and washing cars was for girls
 camp, the Valentine’s Day walk was for Fanconi Anemia, and that time I 
worked on the float it was for New Avenues for Youth. I remember those 
causes, and things about them, and how they affect people. Those times, 
it was personal—not because I had a previous interest, but I became 
connected to the cause.
This
 leads to another concern with how giving is done, that seems to go in 
the opposite direction, in that money is almost always more useful than 
in-kind donations. Last I knew, the Oregon Food Bank can purchase about 6
 pounds of food for $1, so collecting money is far more effective than 
collecting food.  And yet they 
still do have food drives, and perhaps a reason for that is that people 
feel a sense of connection in purchasing food, or in going through their
 cupboards that they don’t feel with writing a check.
There
 is weird psychology to us. One thing they have seen with certain 
fundraising appeals is that people give more to one specific recipient 
than many. So if you focus on one victim of a tsunami, rather than the 
tens of thousands affected, you get better results. This is good for 
fundraisers to know, but it is also clearly impractical, in that the 
general tendency is not to be practical and effective in giving.
I
 think there will actually be a lot more to write on this, and I will 
probably keep on learning more, but as is so typical with me, the 
answers seem to be kindness and thinking. Love people, and want to help 
them, but also use your brain. 
I
 have a small amount deducted from each paycheck that goes to the Oregon
 Food Bank. This is cash, it comes on a regular basis so can be depended
 on, and my employer matches my contribution. This is all very 
practical, and I pretty much never think about it.
However,
 I also volunteer for Blues Fest every year, which benefits them, and I 
also usually end up doing one volunteer shift per year there. In 
conjunction with those, I get more information, and I do keep it 
personal, at least I try, just like I will try to keep up those letters.
 
We are imperfect creatures, but we are always capable of more. 
 
 
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