Yesterday
I was writing specifically about my sponsored children through Plan,
and my regrets about not writing more. I know that donating the money
has value, but I believe there is an added value in making it personal.
It’s
something that I think about at times, like when I am at the store and
asked to round up my change for some cause, or to give a dollar and buy a
shamrock. It’s something quick and cheap, and it does matter to
someone, so it isn’t meaningless. At the same time, it isn’t always
exactly meaningful, or perhaps not in the best way.
Often
the emotions it triggers are guilt, and fatigue. It does add up, and
constantly being asked, and feeling like only a bad person would say
“no”, can eventually build up the kind of resentment that comes from
well-meaning “awareness” posts that 99% of people won’t care about, but
are you one of those good people who will repost?
There
are a few possible issues there. One of the first that I have read was
actually about those pages where you would click and advertisers would
give a small donation, though it brought in the rounding up change part
also. People feel like they are making a contribution, without actually
doing anything.
I
get that concern, and it is the least important one to me. If you can
get people to do good in a pain-free manner, then by all means go for
it. The amount of good that they are doing is probably small, but still,
it could be helping someone, and if someone feels more self-satisfied
than they deserve, it happens for worse reasons all the time. I can’t
get excited over that.
There
are other things that concern me more. One is reading that people
contribute about the same amount to charity regardless of the context. I
believe the figure was about 2%. If people give more in response to an
appeal in one place, they will give less somewhere else, and it seems to
be self-correcting. This is a concern, because it seems possible that
if one cause is better situated than another, it could take away from
other charities with less advantages, and all based on marketing rather
than on the merits of the charity.
Okay,
obviously this is going to happen all the time anyway, but my point is
that it can be even more insidious than we realize. It’s more insidious
because there is less thinking. I can’t even remember who got the extra
change. Were the sneakers for Muscular Dystrophy or March of Dimes? I
don’t know. I do have limited resources; I should be a little more
careful with them.
A
greater level of involvement does make a difference. I remember clearly
that every read-a-thon that I did in grade school was for multiple
sclerosis, working in the fireworks booth and washing cars was for girls
camp, the Valentine’s Day walk was for Fanconi Anemia, and that time I
worked on the float it was for New Avenues for Youth. I remember those
causes, and things about them, and how they affect people. Those times,
it was personal—not because I had a previous interest, but I became
connected to the cause.
This
leads to another concern with how giving is done, that seems to go in
the opposite direction, in that money is almost always more useful than
in-kind donations. Last I knew, the Oregon Food Bank can purchase about 6
pounds of food for $1, so collecting money is far more effective than
collecting food. And yet they
still do have food drives, and perhaps a reason for that is that people
feel a sense of connection in purchasing food, or in going through their
cupboards that they don’t feel with writing a check.
There
is weird psychology to us. One thing they have seen with certain
fundraising appeals is that people give more to one specific recipient
than many. So if you focus on one victim of a tsunami, rather than the
tens of thousands affected, you get better results. This is good for
fundraisers to know, but it is also clearly impractical, in that the
general tendency is not to be practical and effective in giving.
I
think there will actually be a lot more to write on this, and I will
probably keep on learning more, but as is so typical with me, the
answers seem to be kindness and thinking. Love people, and want to help
them, but also use your brain.
I
have a small amount deducted from each paycheck that goes to the Oregon
Food Bank. This is cash, it comes on a regular basis so can be depended
on, and my employer matches my contribution. This is all very
practical, and I pretty much never think about it.
However,
I also volunteer for Blues Fest every year, which benefits them, and I
also usually end up doing one volunteer shift per year there. In
conjunction with those, I get more information, and I do keep it
personal, at least I try, just like I will try to keep up those letters.
We are imperfect creatures, but we are always capable of more.
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