Wednesday, October 24, 2012

Why I am not mad at Adam Levine

No, it is not just that I favor musicians, even though I kind of do.( I also don’t think that’s why I favor John Mayer over Romney; I think that’s a matter of his youth, where I believe that Romney has lived long enough and had enough advantages that he should be a much better person.)
No, the thing with Adam is that he made one small comment that was merely an immature joke, and then got all of this blowback as if he had done something truly heinous, and then made a comment which again could have been a lot nastier, and even if his understanding of the issue is wrong, his thoughts are not unreasonable. I am afraid it is common that the more unreasonable side is that side that professes to believe in God.
As a politically liberal devout Mormon, I am afraid I give pretty much everyone some room to disagree with me. Also, I may end up going into scolding mode here, which no one likes, and the people who do tend to read my blog aren’t usually the problem. However, I think there is something important here, and if all I really do is give some people who agree with me anyway some talking points that come in handy, well, that’s something.
It is far too easy to have contempt for religion, and that is the fault of the religious.
Seriously, if God were petty, He’d be suing people for slander, and they would deserve it. Instead, non-believers get this twisted idea of what God means because small-minded, vicious, arrogant people have created a God in their own image and they get offended when others don’t accept it.
Yes, there’s a lot of arrogance on the atheist side, and immorality has become very accepted, and people who don’t believe the same way as you do bad things, but I am way more concerned about the bad things done by the people with apparently similar beliefs.
The first thing that is necessary is to get over your own sense of righteousness.
Romans 3:23 “For all have sinned and come short of the glory of God.” Do you really think that doesn’t include you? And if you are thinking that your sins aren’t as bad as other people’s, do you really think that’s a helpful viewpoint.
Christ was teaching the Jews. They were the chosen people. They had covenants with God going way back, and they had been given direct teachings and prophecy and the Law of Moses which was rich in symbolism so they would be able to recognize their Messiah, which a large majority nonetheless failed to do. Is that us?
Look at the parables, especially in Matthew 25. Look at the ten virgins. They are virgins, they are invited guests, but only half actually end up inside. That’s not believers versus non-believers; that’s half of the believers missing the point.
Consider the parable of the talents. These are people who have been given specific responsibility, and ability to carry it out. Is that you? What are you doing with it?
The next parable should give you an idea of what you should be doing; feeding the hungry, welcoming strangers, clothing the naked, and visiting the sick and imprisoned. Really, it’s ministering to anyone with needs. Sometimes it feels like now it is more for the depressed and lonely and behind on their housework, but I am amazed sometimes at how literal it can be. There are a lot of physically hungry around, as well as emotionally and spiritually hungry. There are a lot of people in prison, literally and figuratively. And He said it’s the same to do it for someone else as it would be to do it for Him.
Remember, the other side felt like they knew Christ, and that they should be on the right side, but it’s not like it was a secret they were supposed to serve. How many times are we told to love our neighbor, and to serve, and that without charity we are nothing? There is no lack of clarity that you are supposed to choose people over things, and to choose love over pride. It’s really clear.
It should also be pretty clear that we are not supposed to pick and choose whom we love. In addition to the scriptural injunctions against pride and judging, we have the example of the Savior Himself, who was freely acquainted with publicans and harlots. He ate with Pharisees too, who had their own issues, and he accepted children and the sick, and really, he was pretty accepting of everyone.
We learn a lot from the type of interactions he had too. With the woman taken in adultery, He did tell her to go and sin no more—it’s not that He told her the adultery was fine. However, He did not condemn her, with a very simple statement He dealt with her accusers, and so we notice He felt no need to pile on.
I remember once noticing that for the different times Christ healed the blind, He used different methods, and what I believe from that is that there were lessons for the people being healed, and they were all being treated as individuals.
Building on that, I noticed that individualization in other interactions too. There are people who wanted to follow and were discouraged, and people who were asked to follow without having necessarily been thinking about it. Christ did not originally tell the rich young man to give away all his goods, but when he was persistent he got that answer, and then the responsibility of following it. His reluctance to give away everything shows some mercy on the Savior’s part, I think. This was something that he really needed to do, and yet was not going to want to do. Christ gave him an out first, and then answered the question. On the other hand all Christ did with Zaccheus was say He was coming to dinner, and it was enough.
Now, the Son of God had more insight and ability than we do, but we do have the ability to get to know people, to care about them, and to serve them according to their needs and our abilities. I think until you have that kind of love, you need to lay off the judging. And when you do have that love, I don’t think you will have any interest in judging.
If you truly believe in God, I suggest you live your life in such a manner that it will not be easy for people who don’t believe in God to think that you’re a sucker. They may be determined, and scorn you anyway, but don’t hand it to them! And if you truly believe in God, I suggest that you live your life in such a way that it will not be easy for others to assume you’re a bigot.
I’m going to go over more on this tomorrow, but let me leave by directing you to Luke 7. Here He is, with both kinds of sinners, teaching and helping them both, and the path to forgiveness is loving much, and it is also the result of forgiveness. That’s how it works.
36 And one of the Pharisees desired him that he would eat with him. And he went into the Pharisee’s house, and sat down to meat.
37 And, behold, a woman in the city, which was a sinner, when she knew that Jesus sat at meat in the Pharisee’s house, brought an alabaster box of ointment,
38 And stood at his feet behind him weeping, and began to wash his feet with tears, and did wipe them with the hairs of her head, and kissed his feet, and anointed them with the ointment.
39 Now when the Pharisee which had bidden him saw it, he spake within himself, saying, This man, if he were a prophet, would have known who and what manner of woman this is that toucheth him: for she is a sinner.
40 And Jesus answering said unto him, Simon, I have somewhat to say unto thee. And he saith, Master, say on.
41 There was a certain creditor which had two debtors: the one owed five hundred pence, and the other fifty.
42 And when they had nothing to pay, he frankly forgave them both. Tell me therefore, which of them will love him most?
43 Simon answered and said, I suppose that he, to whom he forgave most. And he said unto him, Thou hast rightly judged.
44 And he turned to the woman, and said unto Simon, Seest thou this woman? I entered into thine house, thou gavest me no water for my feet: but she hath washed my feet with tears, and wiped them with the hairs of her head.
45 Thou gavest me no kiss: but this woman since the time I came in hath not ceased to kiss my feet.
46 My head with oil thou didst not anoint: but this woman hath anointed my feet with ointment.
47 Wherefore I say unto thee, Her sins, which are many, are forgiven; for she loved much: but to whom little is forgiven, the same loveth little.
48 And he said unto her, Thy sins are forgiven.
49 And they that sat at meat with him began to say within themselves, Who is this that forgiveth sins also?
50 And he said to the woman, Thy faith hath saved thee; go in peace.

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